Ritual

Lately, I've been thinking about ceremonies and rituals in regards to life's changes big and small.  For example, the changing of houses or changing jobs or changing eating habits - how can these changes be benefitted by a ritual.  I believe our spirits are nurtured by rituals and our psyches make a shift, sometimes the shift may be so subtle that it goes unnoticed by our conscious minds, but this shift still impacts our lives.






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